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female
age
30-35,
*peedyCakey
writes:So there's a guy in my class that's been my close friend for almost 4 years (let's call him Bob). I'm starting to see Bob more as a friend, but I don't think I love him yet.Quite a few of my classmates think Bob likes this other girl (let's call her Mary). Bob likes hanging out with Mary as much as he likes hanging out with me, but I don't want to let him know how I feel because it'll just pressure him since he probably likes Mary.Also, Mary doesn't show any signs of having a crush on Bob, so I'm kind of worried for Bob.Now, here's the question: Do I tell Bob my feelings regardless of how he MIGHT feel something for Mary?Oh, and please add any additional advice that would be good for me if you have any. Thanks!!
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 If you are both friends, then continue as friends. If something more is meant to be, it will happen in it's own good time. Doc
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