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writes:Hi I am extremely scared because this boy at my school keeps sending me looks like, he licks his lips whenever I look his way we used to be best buds like 3rd thru 8th gradegrade and now I am in eleventh and he had changed school districts and came back 3-4 years later and has completely changed!!!! He's not sweet anymore!!!!For instance in class(he sits across me) he begin to stare at me and then eventually playing with himselfand He follows me around and never ever says a word to me...........Help!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): He sounds like a bit of a pervert or stalker. You should probably keep away with him. he might just like you but has a wierd way of showing you. If he keeps on bothering you and you really can't take it then confide in someone. Whether its a close mate or a teacher. Whoever
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Well,that's annoyying..Following u around and not telling?God..Anyway,u should either report this to your principal,teacher,family,or anyone who u trusted very much when it comes to this kind of situation,or,u can just walk up to him and tell him that u dont appreciate his 'lewdness' towards u..Yeah?Ok,Good luck for u..
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reader, Lord_Alucard  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 It's best telling your parents,teacher,guardian or counsellor in case something bad might occur. So basically don't be afraid and tell a adult :)
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reader, b.rye +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Confront him. Most people acting this way don't expect to be confronted by the person they're trying to intimidate (or react in another expected way). Go right up to him and tell him that you don't appreciate his lewd gestures and that he should clearly understand that your teacher, principle, and father (that's a kicker, I promise) are well aware of his behavior and if he doesn't stop immediately he will suffer the consequences delivered by these people. Whether or not you've informed these persons yet, the fact that you tell him you have and that everyone is aware, might very well be enough to deter him. If he makes another single gesture towards you after you confront him, tell everyone (teacher, principle, parent, friends, his friends) of his behavior. If everyone knows he's acting like such a low-down ass, the peer humiliation will put him in his place socially, and the punishment from his superiors will set him straight for what he might be willing to do at school. Take advantage of any tools you have (without doing anything illegal of course). Unexpected reactions like this put the offenders in an awkward position and gives you the upper hand in their mental state of mind. He's messing with your head, so use your brain and mess with his. Once he realizes what you're capable of and how brilliantly you can execute it, he'll not want to mess with you because he'll realize you're stronger than he is. No matter what, DO NOT be passive. He'll pick up on that mental weakness and take advantage of it. Good luck and be stay strong. Remember that power and strength are all in your mind - be bold, strong and cunning but stay cool, calm and collected. You can do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I agree with all the other responses. U must tell someone or at least tell him that its not appropriate & that u wont tolerate it. His behaviour could escalate to things ov a more serious nature so handle this situation the rite way & tell someone who can help!
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reader, JemThunder  +, writes (26 April 2009):
I agree. You should definitely report it to someone before his looks and odd behaviour turns into something worse. It's never something to take lightly.
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reader, peacex3 +, writes (26 April 2009):
You should tell someone right away.
The sooner you tell someone about what hes doing, the sooner it will stop.
Don't be afraid to tell a teacher, principal or your parents.
good luck =]
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