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writes:I haven't been out with loads of guys. But all the guys I have been out with were total idiots. But they were all like really nice and sweet when they first asked me out. This is why I would go out with them, but then they would turn out to be horrible.I was just wondering, do I just have really bad judgement? Are ALL boys sweet and kind when they first ask you out or have I just been unlucky?The main question is, is there actually anything you can go by to tell is a guy is going to turn out an idiot? Any clues? Or is it just luck?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): You should be friends with them before hand then you can decide for yourself whether or not they are good people. You just haven't been lucky. Guys will be nice to you to get you to go out with them and once they have you, they don't feel the need to bother to keep it like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): That's what sucks unless they are a complete jerk there is no way to tell in such a short time. If you feel something is wrong though you need to listen to brain not your heart.
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reader, juliane  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 hi. I just want to say that it is not you who are unfortunate. some guys are idiots, so be it and we can not really do anything about it. but there are some boys who not are fools and that is just lovely. but you can not really know if they are idiots before you really learn to know them first.
you just have to wait and see if the guy are a idiot or not.
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