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writes:How do you get over your first love?I realized I still have feelings for my first boyfriend (for more details check my other question, please), who I dated for about 3 years. I want to forget about him because he is in a relationship and I would never try to get him back like that. If you experienced something like this please give me some advice, it really hurts and I seem unable to get over it, we haven't been together for about 2 years now and every new relationships I get into just doesn't work (I never went out with someone I didn't like but I always end up thinking about my former boyfriend). Thank you so much. And please help... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): I have been through this so i understand exactly what you mean. My ex and i split a year ago after being together for 6 years. He was my 1st true love. I still love him. It hurts like no other hurt and its very confusing. I cant give you a miracle cure but i can tell you that the best way is to accept the truth. It will hurt but it is the only way to heal. If you dont let go then your only going to hold yourself back and you wont be open to new opportunitys. You could miss the man of your dreams as he passes you by. You dont want that. Dont hang on to a memory. Let him go, the same way he let you go. You deserve the best. Goodluck in life and love xox
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 To get over someone, you must make a decision to do so. Sounds untrue, but it is true.
You need to understand, with your mind, that your relationship is over, and that the commitments he has and your way to be make it impossible for you to be together. Then, set yourself to live your life on that basis. Baby Duck said it right: don't try to swim against the tide. Make the decision to be happy, and one day you will.
Que te sea leve.
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