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anonymous
writes:Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): The thing is, I didnt realy react! which im proud of!I asked him what he was doing in a cool calm way. He said his crap, then i just wlked away! i didnt shout or make a seen, I've just made off im not bothered. and what ive noticed is that has bothered him more than ever!He constantly looks to see where i am in the clubs and wants to see whether ive seen him with these girls and if im bothered. but all i did was say hi, smile and keep dancing! yay!And the best thing is I refused to sleep with him! I'm so glad now! lol xx
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reader, Lil Mack  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 He is definitely playing a game with your head. Don't play the game with him because part of his game is to control you. I recommend you stay far away from him and since you only have 5 weeks invested you are in the best place to move on. If he comes around, take the higher road and leave. Don't let your pride get in your way and you will see that it will bother him a hell of alot more than what he did to you.
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reader, RachakaRoni +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Forget about him, I've been in this situation before, they say they are confused but, its just to stall the situation and they mess with your head. Your well to be out of it
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Perhaps he was doubting your feelings for him and did it to see what your reaction would be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): last week he was saying he adored me and missed me and then just no contact.
I know he likes me. but he said his reason is hes confused, likes me alot but is scared of getting hurt.
apparently gf of 2.5yrs left him for someone else and he aint got over it?
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reader, say_anything +, writes (26 April 2009):
 perhaps he felt your relationship wasn't working, for whatever his individual reasons were (not that you were at all to blame, but sometimes people start relationships and then find they don't work as expected, or some unprecendented thing causes them to change their mind) but still has feelings for you which is causing him to act this way. i wish i could tell you a definite answer but this is only a suggestion; when someone unravels the mysteries behind male behaviour i would dearly love to know! :)
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