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anonymous
writes:Okay here's the deal, me and my boyfriend have recently decided to take our relationship further and sleep together. At first I thought it was normal that it would be uncomfortable and unenjoyable, but after many tries it just gets tiring to have to try and fake an orgasm. I don't know wether or not to tell him? It just seems he gets all the pleasure and I don't. :|
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reader, lucy1993 +, writes (28 February 2011):
well either go find another guy, black guys have big sized penis or stay with him and just try new positions to get a real orgasm?? xxx
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reader, niki20  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 try when your on top have your clit rub against his pubic bone, it will /could get an awesome o
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all you guys :o)
You all helped miiiiles! My boyfriend even said it had been the best time hes ever had so... I owe it all to you! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I had this problem when I first became sexually active. I felt nothing at all whilst I was having sex.
Bobbles and satindesire are right, try to stimulate your clitorus.
Also in my case, I just needed a little time.
After about four months of feeling nothing in the bed room (And that includs other types of stimulation) I finally began to feel comfortable with sex and being with my boyfriend and got pleasure from it.
Try different things.... Try it in the shower (loob properly) and use the shower head on yourself at the same time.
Don't try to fake orgasms. It just puts more pressure on yourself and you are less likely to climax if you are uncomfortable and self-conscious. Also if you tell your boyfriend that you can't climax, then he should be willing to try new things out in order for you to get your pleasure too... If you fake orgasms he will think that he's doing great... And keep doing what he's doing.
There is also the stail fact that only a tiny percentage of women can come through penetration, that needs to be taken into account. You are not alone.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 have you tried stimulating your clitoris whilst he penetrates?
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