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writes:Here's my dilemma, I met a guy a few years back, we hit it off immediately. In the beginning we spoke on the phone all the time chatted on line also. We met in person 4 times. Everytime we met in person, he blocked my e-mails and kept his distance. He never really explained why. I told him if he didn't want to talk to me or see me ever again, just tell me and I would never contact him again. He could never do this? We live about an hour and a half away from each other. He says it's distance, time and has stuck with the same story for 3 years. I just saw him recently and now he's being distant again. I asked him if he was married and he says no. All he says is he feels badly that when he sees me it's only for a short while. I told him I didn't care and he said he cares? What's up with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): To the female underneath, you described that perfect.. i get that way with my long distance g/f sometimes too.. it just hurts soooo much because you miss them and get seperation anxiety, so hearing there vioce and reading there txt on the screen can become very difficult for a guy.. for girls its ok because you need that.. we also need that part of long distance but it can become hard and we become scared... yes i know its strange but thats how "some" of us guys think, i happen to be one of them. To the poster maybe you should tell him how you feel and you both can work it out... communication is the key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): My friend is the same way. It's because you live so far away and you only see eachother for a brief amount of time. It hurts him and he doesn't want to get too close to him in case you break his heart. Maybe you should stop meeting him and find someone else.
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