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writes:I lost my virginity to this guy, that I knew from school. he already graduated and I was still at the school, however we hooked up again off the internet and I told him I wanted him to be my first, but we were talking about having sex and few weeks later we had sex. I found out that he had sex with a lot of girls and I was just another one but he told me that I was his first virgin. I'm 18 so I waited a while but could have waited longer. How do I get him to want me. I told him in a text that I wanted more and I found a guy that will give it to me, so IM GOING TO JUST CHILL WITH HIM INSTEAD. He replied, can you at least suck my dick? Rude much I regert even nowing him I want to ge back at him.... how?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): What did he do wrong?I know obviously you wanted something else out of this relationship. But right now it sounds like you're angry at him for not reading your mind and not assuming that he owed you something more because you slept with him. Did you ask for what you wanted? Did you say you wanted it to lead to a steady and exclusing relationship? Did he lie to you about where he felt things were going? I don't hear him doing anything dishonest in your description so far.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Hello,
Leave it now and just let things pass over. I experienced the same thing when I was 17, three weeks of madness cost me my virginity and then he run a mile after his conquest. Now in later years I look back at it as a learning curve and have learnt to smile about it! He was my first and I accepted it. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): The best revenge when it comes to unrequitted "love" is to go about your life, be a successful HAPPY person, have tons of friends and just be HAPPY. DO NOT sink down to the level that you are already sinking to. Trying to make him jealous or any of that is NOT going to change anything and its only going to make you look worse.
So act like you DON'T care, don't give him any attention, he doesn't deserve it, he wasn't that great anyways, right? and be a sassy, happy fabulous woman...Get in the gym, get in a good college, just keep moving forward...they always regret it IF you play your cards right...
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (7 June 2008):
This happens to us all at some point. Nice guy, things seem good, then suddenly Mr.Wonderful is showing his true colours.
At least you have found out what type of man he is early before things became more serious.
Treat this all as a learning curve, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
The best revenge you can get here is by ignoring him and his texts. He'll soon realise that you're better than him and that he isnt as great as he thinks he is.
xxx
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