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writes:I am a young woman, very independent, truly attractive, no children, no husband, 27 years old, college degree and makes a ton of money! Why wouldn't someone want this? I am getting to a point where I want to have a consistent relationship. So... I met this guy. He's so sweet, makes me laugh, nice, handsome, respectable. He's like me... no kids, almost 28, has a degree and we both have a lot of fun together. This is my deal... Why do I get antsy and want to hurry up, have him become "mine" and almost seemingly tie him down? I think I just found someone like me and don't want to let him go? Am I tripping?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Honestly I think LazyGuy just about answers your question. Just one a bit of advise take some little caution: Do not become to clingy and to desperate....that will scare any guy away and you will be on your own again.
Enjoy him, the love, the relationship and allow it to flow, no fears, or pressure!
Good luck!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Wait a minute.
"I am a young woman, very independent, truly attractive, no children, NO HUSBAND, 27 years old, college degree and makes a ton of money!"
Odd way to describe yourself. The "no husband" part I mean. Why didn't you just use "single". After all, plenty of couples are very happy together without being married. So you ain't single just not married?
Why the nitpicking? Because the devil is always in the details in these type of questions.
Same with "Why wouldn't someone want this?" Odd question since you then go on to describe someone who apparently does want 'this'.
The question you ask only makes sense if this guy is a last hope. If you feel that you would be settling because no one else wants 'this'. So is he your dream guy or just the only one to take the bait? Because if he is your dream guy exactly what is your problem? You are of the right age, you got it all and found a nice guy and want to marry him. Gee yeah, that is odd, a woman of 27 wanting to get settled with the Mr Right she has met. If that means you are tripping we would have to lock up all women... *note to self: find a reason why this would a bad thing*
I think what is happening to you is called being in love. Don't panic, it happens. How to cure this dreadful affliction? Live with him, does it every time.
Frankly just what is the problem?
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