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writes:I really like this girl and she feels the same way, but at school we are in totally different groups and we never get the chance to really socialise. What should we do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Watch High School Musical, they break the status quo and go in different groups. Great Watching!! *kills self*
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 We would all love to give you the benefit of our knowledge and let you know that we all have our regrest about the groups in school and how we let these self-imposed groups divide all of us. There were people that I wished that I had the nerve to go up to in high school and I never did because I was intimidated by the group that they were in. The fact was, once you get out of school, those groups don't exist anymore and most people are open to being friendly with everyone else. All I can say is don't let this stop you. I wish I hadn't. Just approach this person when they aren't hanging out with there buddies and ask them if they would like to hang out or attend some event with you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Breaking social 'groups' in school can be hard. Why don't you introduce your friend to your group and she can introduce you to hers? Don't be afraid to mingle in other social groups, break out! You may find really cool people to hang out with!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Make an effort?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): I hate the way some people feel they have to blend into the crowd, backdown to pressure - not really mature or authentic.
Why don't you go out of your way a bit?! It's not like your miles away, or even in different schools.
Use your head a bit.
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