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*hady2012
writes:i had this beautiful girlfriend. we were deeply in love.we went through really bad times and really good times.we've been together on and off for 4-5 years. we barely talkbecause we seperated, but my feelings for her were still strong.when we do talk now it usually just fighting.. just recentlyshe tells me that i messed her head up and bc of that she cant letanyone in, she said i made her lose trust in guys and she cant beliveshe ever took me back after some things i did.. than she said tahnksfor f% and ^* me up forever....does she still love me? what can i do to make things better.idk if i should just move on, and let her go...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Try and talk to her and really evaluate your relationship with her. I say talk to her tonight and be honest about how you feel about her. But if she doesn't want to see you again, do not force her! You just have to move on. At first you'll feel depressed, but a few days later, you'll eventually start to forget about her. I'm not trying to say that you should forget about her completely, but try to be her friend first, and if she likes that, then let it go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Move on! Stop having any contact with each other. We so often make the mistake to forget about the bad things and why it did not work, we block that in our minds and want to hold on to the good, that is great, but if in all this time things did not work for the two of you....Please give it up.....make a list of why it did not work, what went wrong and close the chapter. If after all this time you are having these problems, how can there be a future together? Clear your mind, find somebody new to start a relationship with, without "baggage" from the past. Best wishes!
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