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We've been together 4 months, is it too early to think about babies?

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Question - (6 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby is it to soon and am i too young

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A female reader, HaileyBurger South Africa +, writes (20 August 2008):

HaileyBurger agony auntNo i don't think it's to soon, cause i'm in the same position only difference is that we are together for about 6 months now but know him a bit longer. I feel as tough we have been together much longer. I love him dearly and our relationship is strong. When both of you really feel ready go ahead and i hope for the best for you.

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (6 June 2008):

jay12toes agony auntnow i dont think your too young but it is way to early in the relationship. my mom always used to say that people show there best side for the first 6 mounths of the relationship. i think you just want to have a baby and not that you want to have a baby with him. find a good partner or find out how good the one you have is, get married then have a kid. its a long process but a kid will be a lot harder to raise on your own.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

The fact you have to ask, shows you have your doubts. Wait a few months at least and see how the relationship is then, and re-address the situation.

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A female reader, little ninja United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

little ninja agony aunthey if you say 16 weeks which is the equivelent of 4 months id have to say yes i think personally its to soon to consider babies..end of the day you should be getting to know each other first experiencing new things,you are at this moment in time in the honeymoon period and happy and in love take them heads out the clouds and see babies are a big commitment and get to know each other properly first before considering bringing a third person into a new relationship thats only just developing.

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