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writes: Our marriage with two kids is having alot of problems which I am unable to sort out.I understand spending some quality times together would make our marriage go well but he doesnt know the importance of it.Can I alone make our marriage work good? How can I help this out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): No you can't sort it out alone. Tell him this and say you need to talk. Then talk.
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reader, youwillhateme  +, writes (6 June 2008):
i agree with country woman, you can't do it alone, sit down and talk to him :)
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (6 June 2008):
 No sweetheart you alone cannot make a marriage work, that takes two of you.
You have 2 children and so it is in their best interest to try to work things out, but only if there is still love in the relationship or strong feelings for one another.
If one person will not talk then how can you put things right.
You need to both sit down and find out what is going on in each other's heads.
If you cannot work this out on your own then maybe you need to get some professional counselling and again this can only truly happen if both of you want to get this sorted out. No matter whether it is positive or negative surely your husband will understand the importance of at least trying so that a marriage is not broken because one person is stubborn and will not talk. You get to the root of the problem so either talk between yourselves or get someone to be a sounding board for you both, you MUST though go together otherwise this will not work either.
Wish you well.
BFN
Country Woman
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