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writes:Hey, Im 16 and ive been in love with this girl for almost 2 years now. She gives me so many signs that she loves me and then so many that she doesnt. Well last night I told her everything and she didnt really care at all but I was so sure that she was in love with me too but apparently not. Well its not going to good, but the thing is, ill never be able to let her go. What should I do? I told her that if she wanted too we can sort it out tonight, but she never responded. I just need some advice. And by the way the message that I sent her was amazing, it was seriously amazing. I know she had to cry but I dont see why she just kinda pushed it out of her mind Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Well I remember when I was 16.... I thought that a simple smile meant the girl wanted me. But I think this situation is pretty clear. She doesn't feel the same way. Trying to make her or ask why she doesn't feel the same will make things ALOT worse. You can probably think of a zillion reasons why she should love you but it means nothing if she doesn't actually feel that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): If you are not getting the same message back then i think you should just walk away. Sorry to be so blunt, but hey, life is way too short and you do deserve to be happy. If you sent her a message and she just pushed it out of her mind, then that just says it all, she dont love you mate,and you cannot make someone love you if they dont. Be prepared to finish this now and find someone who you so rightly deserve.
take care
xx
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reader, deadheart +, writes (7 June 2008):
 Whatever you do don't pressure her into anything, let her respond on her own time and if she likes you she likes you, if she dosn't she dosn't, la-la-la-la life goes on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I think you are feeling very low and I can understand, you had your hopes on this girl for two years and now she is not reacting the way you were hoping! However, don't be to "pushy", she now knows how you feel, let her absorb it all. Continue to just be your normal self. Time will work this out....don't rush her, then you might loose her....Just pay attention to all your other friends and normally activities, stop contacting her for a day or two, give her "space".
Be strong and good luck!
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (6 June 2008):
Sometimes when we become infactuated with somebody, we search for signals they feel the same way, without even knowing.
Its good that she accepted your feelings but if she dosnet feel the same way there isnt much you can do.
It may feel like shes the only girl in the world right now but she isnt, you're gonna meet loads of girls who like you respectively.
If your feelings for her are really that strong, go out and meet other girls and re-address the situation in say 6 months time.If you still feel the same, ask her out again, if not, then you can move on for good.
Good luck
xxx
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