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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Need both a girl's view and a boy's view on this.I've known this boy for about 9 years and we were friends for about 8. Im 14 and he is 15. For the last 2 years i've fancied him. He found out last year (about September) and after that he stopped talking to me. Even a hello was ignored. Before he found out that i liked him. He kept looking at me and then i was going on this geography trip with the school ( he went aswell) and when we were on the ferry i was talking to 3 of my friends who also went on the trip. Suddenly one of them told me that he was looking at me. I turned round and he was. He saw that i caught him and turned round quickly acting like nothing happened.The whole time we were on the trip ( it was 4 days long). I got the impression that he liked me and my friends stated to convince me that he did.But like i said soon as he found out i liked him he started to act like i didn't exist. I tried talking to him at school, on bebo, msn and skype and he ignored me still. I got annoyed with it and finaly asked him on skype why he was ignoring me. I asked him a few times then i kinda let my anger get the best of me and insulted him and he got annoyed with me. I apologised online the next day. At School one of my closest friends who is in his year told him that i was really sorry i was at break thats how i found out that he was annoyed with me but another friend found out at break and even though me and my close friend tried to stop her She asked him out with me. Luckly my close friend was there and she told him that i didnt want to ask him out cause i know it would have made things worse. He told my friend "thats good because i would have said no. I Would say no and it didnt matter who asked him out with me cause the answer would always be NO"I start panicing now and i feel like an idiot but ive noticed that he has started to look at me again even if i just turn round suddenly. I still get too panicy to try talking to him again.I really dunno what to do now.Does anyone think that he likes me?Does anyone think that he hates me?And should i try talking to him?Or am i just an idiot?Help !!!!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (7 June 2008):
Welcome to the confusing world of dating. Unfortunately this probably wont be the last time a man will confuse you.
This situation has been going on for a while so its best you know where you stand as soon as you can.
He could have meant what he said but he may not of.
The best think to do now is ask him yourself directly, ask him if he's interested in you and tell him you wont wait around for him to make his mind up.
Yes, its scary asking face to face, but getting others involved will only confuse the situation more.
Once you know for sure you can move on.
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reader, deadheart  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 Well if he said that he would say no then he probably dosn't like you. The whole him looking at you part might be part of your imagination. This happened to me with a girl who I asked out a couple of times each time because I though she was looking at me and eventually it just got worse and worse. I'm really sorry to tell you this but I think you may have to let him go, I know it hurts but you're still young and you will find someone else better than him later on. For now you just have to find some way to vent the pain, like writing poems or something.
I know this sucks but life is just cruel like that sometimes. If he really likes you though he will come to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): first of all, hes stupid. my best friend had this happen to her, the guy stopped talking to her, and everything became stupid. forget the guy, find a boyfriend and make sure that ur holding hands kissing, watever, right infront of him , not to make him jelous, but for him to know that u had someone else in mind, the guys a creep
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Vow, you have really got your self into a state by listening to others, and involving others. I think you should try to calm down, just try to be your normal self, stop fussing about the guy....That might get his interest going....and he might even melt down towards you!
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