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reader, Honey Xavier  +, writes (28 August 2008):
Hi,
According to my experience it could be treated,not through medication only also through physical exercise,meditaion, fasting and self control.
I started sex with my older freinds while I was 14 years old and he was 25 yrs,at that time I was Top dominant and till 21 years I fucked more than hundred boys to my same age as wel as older, but the day came while I was Persueing Graduation and stayed in hostel,my life turned off and I became choosy of dick only and used to searched bottom,instead of getting it some queer try to fuck me but till that time I was fond of bottom, I tried to stop but failed, my study influenced with it I was disturbed.after a year a guide of 35 years fucked me,again and again,I was in job I have had sex with my colligue. but after sex morally My soul did not accept me as a man, I felt I turned as Hetrosexual.
So I searhed for treatment, contacted doctors, they advise for Pscychatrist, and over all no result, I told to my parents about my feeling that I could not sleep at night, I could not stay at hostel with young boys, I cuold not study in co class, My mother could not got the point but father understood,and suggested me, here is some trips to avoid Hetrosex or Homo Sex.
1. Have fast(in Islamic way)on Monday and Thursday and controle your self and fear to god as He is Omnipresent.
2. Try to get marry soon and dont think about your previous life.
3.Dont approach Homosexual or Hetrosexual to fullfill ur desire if you are far from ur wife or still not married.
4.Use mix vegitable juice(Beat root,carrot,spinach etc)in your diet avoid dryfruits, chicken,eggs and less use meat if you are unmarried or far from ur wife.
5.Start meditation,exercise and try to be happy in all conditions or circumstances.
6.Ablution is needed if you feel for sex after ejaculation, even after masterbation.
7. the Medicine Memory(Rx-Ginkgo Bilobo) is for blood flow help full to treat homoseuality, it reduce the feeling of same sex and attract u for opposite, it is part of my research.
Hope you will get answer.
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reader, Honey Xavier +, writes (28 August 2008):
Hi,
According to my experience it could be treated,not through medication only also through physical exercise,meditaion, fasting and self control.
I started sex with my older freinds while I was 14 years old and he was 25 yrs,at that time I was Top dominant and till 21 years I fucked more than hundred boys to my same age as wel as older, but the day came while I was Persueing Graduation and stayed in hostel,my life turned off and I became choosy of dick only and used to searched bottom,instead of getting it some queer try to fuck me but till that time I was fond of bottom, I tried to stop but failed, my study influenced with it I was disturbed.after a year a guide of 35 years fucked me,again and again,I was in job I have had sex with my colligue. but after sex morally My soul did not accept me as a man, I felt I turned as Hetrosexual.
So I searhed for treatment, contacted doctors, they advise for Pscychatrist, and over all no result, I told to my parents about my feeling that I could not sleep at night, I could not stay at hostel with young boys, I cuold not study in co class, My mother could not got the point but father understood,and suggested me, here is some trips to avoid Hetrosex or Homo Sex.
1. Have fast(in Islamic way)on Monday and Thursday and controle your self and fear to god as He is Omnipresent.
2. Try to get marry soon and dont think about your previous life.
3.Dont approach Homosexual or Hetrosexual to fullfill ur desire if you are far from ur wife or still not married.
4.Use mix vegitable juice(Beat root,carrot,spinach etc)in your diet avoid dryfruits, chicken,eggs and less use meat if you are unmarried or far from ur wife.
5.Start meditation,exercise and try to be happy in all conditions or circumstances.
6.Ablution is needed if you feel for sex after ejaculation, even after masterbation.
7. the Medicine Memory(Rx-Ginkgo Bilobo) is for blood flow help full to treat homoseuality, it reduce the feeling of same sex and attract u for opposite, it is part of my research.
Hope you will get answer.
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A
male
reader, Honey Xavier +, writes (28 August 2008):
Hi,
According to my experience it could be treated,not through medication only also through physical exercise,meditaion, fasting and self control.
I started sex with my older freinds while I was 14 years old and he was 25 yrs,at that time I was Top dominant and till 21 years I fucked more than hundred boys to my same age as wel as older, but the day came while I was Persueing Graduation and stayed in hostel,my life turned off and I became choosy of dick only and used to searched bottom,instead of getting it some queer try to fuck me but till that time I was fond of bottom, I tried to stop but failed, my study influenced with it I was disturbed.after a year a guide of 35 years fucked me,again and again,I was in job I have had sex with my colligue. but after sex morally My soul did not accept me as a man, I felt I turned as Hetrosexual.
So I searhed for treatment, contacted doctors, they advise for Pscychatrist, and over all no result, I told to my parents about my feeling that I could not sleep at night, I could not stay at hostel with youn boy, I cuold not study in co class, My mother could not got the point but father under stood, here is some trip to avoid Hetrosex or Homo Sex.
1. Have fast(in Islamic way)on Monday and Thursday and controle your self and fear to god as he is Omnipresent.
2. Try to get marry soon and dont think about your previous life.
3.Dont approach Homosexual or Hetrosexual to fullfill ur desire if you are far from ur wife or still not married.
4.Use mix vegitable juice(Beat root,carrot,spinach etc)in your diet avoid dryfruits, chicken,eggs and less use meat.
5.Start meditation,exercise and try to be happy in all condition.
6.Ablution is needed if you feel for sex after ejaculation, even after masterbation.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 A gay can become straight later and a straight can become gay later.
How and why they change, nobody knows.
It is just one's sexual preferences.
There is no right or wrong on this matter except in some self
righteous and holier than thou person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Yes there are so called treatments but they don't work because it isn't possible. If you or someone is gay then that is the way it is.
You can choose not to have sex with other men but you cannot choose not to be attracted to them. Some people think it is all a choice but it most certainly isn't - just like staight men don't "choose" to be attracted to womenn - it is just the way they are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): One must choose to lust after another person, and one must choose to have sex with another person. If being "gay" is to lust after and have sex with another person wielding the same equipment, then no, there is no "cure" for being gay. Being "gay" is a choice, and one must choose to not be gay. For many, this is an extremely difficult decision to follow through. Have your friend check out these sites; they may have some helpful information:
www.blazinggrace.org
www.settingcaptivesfree.com
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 No and it doesnt require treatment.
Years and years ago they tried electric shock therapy whilst showing pictures of male organs etc to retrain gay people to become hetrosexual but of course it didnt work, why would it, its not a disease of the brain, its a normal part of society x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): No,there is no treatment for a person who is gay.You can't
take them to therapy or give them an intervention.It's just
the way they are.The only treatment is their mind.They dec-
ide if they want to change.There's nothing wrong with being
gay!(If u thought so.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Some people turn to homosexuality mainly out of the "deviance" and "wrong-ness" of it all. It's as if heterosexuality isn't naughty and provocative enough for them compared to homosexuality. I think a lot of these people eventually come around back to heterosexuality.
But for a ton of homosexuals it's really just what they prefer regardless of the implications. This type usually doesn't turn to heterosexuality very often.
There are also varying degress too. Homo & hetero doesn't seem to be a 100% yes or no thing. It's probably a shade of grey for most people, even though people are usually way closer to one side than the other.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (6 June 2008):
 There's no treatment, because it's not a disease.
Being gay is simply what you are or what you aren't.
In theory it may be possible to change your feelings of sexuality by being given large doses of the appropriate hormones under careful medical supervision, but in practice the mental state of being attracted to one sex or the other is likely to be something that stays with you. Trying to deny or repress your sexuality is likely to cause severe frustration and unhappiness.
I would also mention that many people's true sexuality doesn't become clear until well into their teens or even later. You still can't change what will be, but also you can't be sure that what you feel at a younger age is necessarily going to be what you feel later. Also, very few people are completely "male" or completely "female". We all have parts of our emotional and sexual makeup that involves elements of both sexes within it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): No, there is no cure for homosexuality. There is no need for a cure. It is not a disease. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay.
It is natural for boys at young ages to have homosexual urges. Most boys, at some time, feel an attraction to other boys. That does not mean that they are homosexual. It's just part of growing up.
But even if the urges persist, and one realizes that one is gay, it may be difficult to cope with, but it's not the end of the world. Homosexuality is not a crime, a disease, a sin....it's just a different way of loving.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes that is what i mean can they become normal???
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (6 June 2008):
 If you mean turning a gay person into a straight person
No there is no treatment unless you wanna believe some of the religous people out there.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 More information will net you better responses. What exactly are you asking? Treatment to change homosexual tendencies to heterosexual tendencies?
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reader, youwillhateme +, writes (6 June 2008):
ummm, let me think ....... no, of course not !
you can't change being gay. having said that, you are very young. and it is not uncommon for boys around your age, to feel attracted to other boys, usually an older boy.
is it a slightly older boy ? if it is then it could be that you just think he's really cool, and that you would like to be like him, rather than be with him.
this feeling will probably last for a while, and if you still feel like it when your 15-16 years old, then you are probably gay :) and remember there is nothing wrong with being gay ! :)
good luck, hope this has helped :)
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