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age
26-29,
*binastar
writes:Hi,I love my bf very much and he loves me too its just a couple of things keep us from getting really close to each other.Number one) my parents are extreamly over protective of me. they hardly let me go out to the shops by myself never mind go on a date. they also dont know about my boyfriend and they would say how im to young to date if i told them.number 2) i see my bf alot in school even though we have same sex classes. my bf is also like my best friends too but the only problem is whenever we go anywhere loads of people he knows and i know are always coming up to us, asking if we're going out and stuff. and even when we do have some privacy we can still se people spying on us lol.lastly my bf is quite a bit shorter than me (which i dont care but other people laugh at our size difference) and i havnt ever hugged him yet because i dont know how and also i havnt kissed him even though i really want to but i just dont know how while we're in school. Please Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): you are very young. you dont need a bf at 10, 11, or 12...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): You are still so young, so what if there is always people around, enjoy each others company! Leave the rest for later, you have a future ahead and lots of time. Companionship is what you should concentrate on!
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Well first of all if you're thinking about having sex with him, don't, I'm not sure what you mean by 'getting really close' but I see you're from the UK, and the legal age for sex is 16, so you'd both be very illegal.
Explain to your parents that he's the same age as you and that you're not going to do anything stupid.
They may be right that their being over protective, thing is, it doesn't sound like over-protecting to me.
Spend some time with him and ask your mum if you can have him over for tea and just spend some time letting your parents get to know him too, things will work out and the ropes will loosen when you get a bit older, you're still at a very tender age!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 June 2008):
I can understand why your parents are over protective of you, but also understand how horrible it is to be trapped inside the house all the time.
At school, you'll just have to be patient, people will get used to the fact you are going out eventually and not make such a fuss. They you can have time to yourself.
Why not go round to each others houses?
Good Luck!! xx
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