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*REAM69
writes: I am a several years longer than my husband and we have been married for almost a year. it will will be a year the 23rd of June. He seems to have lost intrest to me though. I do have everything he has said he likes, and we don't have any kids. I've tried virtually everything. What can I do? I know I'm not as experienced as him, he talks about his past experiences, and we run into his ex girlfriends everywhere, but he gets upset if I even mention any of my experiences. What can I do to make me want me again and know I'm not going to leave him?
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reader, DREAM69 +, writes (11 June 2008):
DREAM69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. Things are somewhat better. He still gets mad and throws a fit. I tried to pretend I didn't need him, and that didn't work. He thought I was cheating on him. I'm guessing that the stress from work is getting to him. I recently found out that a girl in MS is flirting with him. It upsets me and he knows this, but he tells me anyway. It's like he enjoys watching me get jealous,but he gets pissed if a guy looks my way. What do I do? I love him and don't want to give up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): As it is your anniversary coming up, why not organise a romantic get away? Start flirting with him again! Think of how things were before you got married, was there any thing you did different, then try do that again!
Take care of yourself, look good, be positive and full of confidence.
Good luck! Enjoy a second honeymoon!
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (6 June 2008):
 what things have changed since the begining of the relationship? what were the things that made him fall in love with you in the first place? have you talked to him about how you feel? men just like women like to be surprised, it might be a good idea to find a movie he would like and go see it together, or for you to take him out to his favorite resturant. campare things to how they used to be, im sure theres a clue in there somewhere.
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (6 June 2008):
the only way to your problem...is to pretend you don't need him
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