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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 9 months. We have recently had 'relatioship' problems and he said i could see him this weekend but insted he has decided to go out with his friends, where i have only seen him once this week. He has done this quite alot and i have recently reached the point where i am really annoyed. I love this guy and i dont no what to do, any ideas. I have spoken to him about this before, but nothing has changed, his friends think i react well towards him, please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 June 2008):
Well he has no reason to change as you are his girl and will put up with it.
You have to make him see that you will not be taken for granted.
Tell him there are plenty of men out there who would love the chance to spend time with you, so if he isn't willing to put effort into the relationship then it is over.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is my opinion only!! I think he is walking all over you. Give him an ultimatum the next time he does this. I would say if you dont shape up then sorry but i want a proper bf and we are finished. I wouldnt put up with this crap. Some blokes if you let them they will just do what they want. He is probably pushing you to see how far he can go, give him a boundary and dont let him trip over it.
take carexx
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