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They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?

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Question - (6 June 2008) 17 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (7 June 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntDon't let peer pressure affects you.

Only time will tell who is right or wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

hi.

all i hav 2 say dat if i was ur mum i wud b sooooooooooo proud of u! stick to ur guns.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

You are so mature and years later,when you see them out on

the street somewhere looking like you don't know what,you

will be grateful for your wise mind.They are childish be-

cause they're making fun of you doing the right thing.Stop

hanging around them because they are not your friends.

Friends can be different and not share the same interests.

They don't make fun of eachother.Stop hanging around them

because they're gonna keep making fun of you and you're

gonna want them to stop so you'll give in to them and start

smoking too.Keep sober and take care!

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

lexilou agony auntThey need to grow up. When they are paranoid and their brian function is vastly reduced in years to come, its your turn to laugh at them x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks everybody for your comments im glad somebody agrees with me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

all i have to say is well in!!!!!!!!!

Stick to your guns. Make some new mates if you need to.!!!!!!

Keep it up.

XXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (6 June 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntHeck No! Stick to your principles! I think that's great! Most people who have a problem with a certain vice only wish to drag you down to there level anyways. I don't disapprove of grass, but I have seen far too many young people smoke it every day, and it has a way of sucking away your ambition in life. I don't believe that it's a "gateway" drug, either. BUT, if you have to alter your perception of reality every single day, What Is Wrong With Their Life?

So, good for you for noing yourself so well at such a young age.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

You should be proud of yourself, because this IS childish and totally idiotic.

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A female reader, HonningKanin Norway +, writes (6 June 2008):

HonningKanin agony auntI admire you and wish there were more people like you. It is very childish of them making fun of you. They are on the end of "It wont hurt, cant hurt, isn't hurting cause i am having fun" and are probably annoyed that you can have fun without it.

If these people make fun of you again just tell them straight that you dont need it and dont want it and they should stop making fun of you because it is very stupid of them to do so. You have a mind of your own and you are a big boy. You can say yes or no and they should respect your decision.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

Yes, stick to your own principles.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntI agree, you stick to your principles and don't smoke the weed.

I houseshared once with a girl who smoked weed, and she was still in bed at 3pm!

Not good and not practical to say in the least.

It's them with the problem not you.

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A female reader, Gio Canada +, writes (6 June 2008):

It is childish what they are doing indeed! And irressponsible. You are doing the right thing in keeping clean, and perhaps it would be good for you to go out with people who are not into smoking weed and that sort of things. After all, you don't need that stuff to have fun. Take care of yourself.

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A male reader, youwillhateme United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

of course they're childish, so what if you don't smoke weed, its up to you. if your friends make fun of you cos you don't smoke it, then they aren't very good friends. i smoke it, but have many friends who don't, and i respect that its their decision.

so what if you don't need to smoke weed to have a good time ?

why do they care ?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

kenny agony auntYes i do think thats is childish, and immature. I admire you for standing up for yourself and not smoking the weed because everyone else is. Don't let them get you down, you are a stronger and better person than they will ever be, and you should be proud of yourself.

All the best, and keep it up xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

You can feel very proud of yourself to handle the peer pressure. Let them laugh and make fun, not only is it childish, they are destroying there lifes and there health. You know that you are the one who will be laughing in the long run, when they have health problems or

become addicted.

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (6 June 2008):

jay12toes agony auntthere are a lot of people who dont smoke weed. you shouldnt let yourself feel pressured, if its something you dont want to do then dont do it. besides its an expensive habbit, and its illigal. just be strong.

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A female reader, inneedofattention United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

inneedofattention agony auntweed is illegal. I know a few people that have tried it. they started off as successful business people and eventually it lead to cannabis, then cocaine then eventually heroin. Its an addictive, and illegal drug. if you get caught smoking weed, you WILL be arrested. these people you know will probably end up as homeless people begging for money in a few years as they feel that if they can smoke weed they can handle anything...

please dont try it, it would be such a waste of your life. it is very childish and extremely unfair to pressure you into smoking it. dont do it please hun.

all my love and luck, in need of attention. xxx

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