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writes:I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a guy that I have known for almost 5 years. We used to be best friend and we had a little fling the summer after high school but then we went to college and we separated. We still talked every once in a while. Now I am a senior in college. At this point I feel bored of my relationship. We have seriously discussed marriage and before I felt like it was perfect but recently I feel differently. He is the sweetest guy in the world. Always there for me but a little too much. Someetimes I want my time alone and to be honest lately I dont even feel like having sex with him because its almost like I am not attracted to him anymore. I dont know how this happened because everything was so good. I am thinking that he always wants to be so good and everything has to be perfect and proper and its boring. I dont know what to do. I really thought I was in love with him but the last few weeks its almost like I am falling out of love with him. I really hope this is not the case. What do you think? Any suggestions?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (8 June 2008):
 how much have things changed? how often do you go out on dates with eachother? mabey you need to go somewhere new, take a vacation with him. but i do also agree with bnaner, some time apart might do you some good. oh and buy him some good looking clothes, that might help you find him attractive again.
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reader, B-NaneR  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 I think you should talk to him about him being there a bit too much as you said. Its never good to be around someone so much even if you really love them. Everyone needs space in a relationship and open also. Never be afraid to say how you fell, or if something is bothering you in the relationship or out of it, its always good to talk about it. It really sounds like you need your space adn you love him. The same thing happened to my relationship, it almost ended a while ago because we felt the same so we agreed to take some time apart and just relax with our other friends adn to tell you the truth the next time we saw eachother we couldnt let go of eachother, it really pulled us closer and we are still really close and enjoying our relationship more each day. So I dont think you are falling out of love with him it just might be too much of eachother. I dont think you should leave him just get some time for yourself and try things again, I promise it will work, it did for me.the best of luck, tell me if it works :)
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