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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm sick of my boyfriend always being in a mood over something, he's been like this ever sinse i've known him, but its gotten' worse sinse we've been going out. all my life people have always put me down, and when he's in that mood, he's exactly the same. he's never hurt me or anything, as i know he's not like that, but most nights when i go to sleep, i feel like absolute crap. I've blown up once before about it and he apologises and makes it better, and i know he would never give up on us, its as though one minute he's up and the next he's down.the thing is, i love him too much to let him go. he's always on about how lucky he is to have me, showering me with complements, kissing me, hugging me and when we talk something just seems to click.i just don't know what to do anymore, as i don't want to lose him, but i'm tired of him moodswings. Any advice would be so great. thanks x
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reader, accused  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 Sounds to me that your BF maybe bi polar. Maybe you should consider researching the internet and check the sites that are available for people with this disorder. As far as, him putting you down and making you feel like crap, You are in charge of that one! You are a "volunteer" to this treatment, your self worth should be your number 1 priority! NO ONE can take your self respect, You have to give it to them.... Explain to your BF that you are someone and above all "YOU LOVE YOU"... and in the end thats all you need... If he loves you and is so thankful to have you in his life then he will consider how he talks to you... Best of luck, and please keep me posted
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): talk to him,try to make him understand how low you feel and how he`s destroying something good,he may just see sense and act upon it
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