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writes:Is a lot of "come" unusual.I met my boyfriend almost two years ago. He was my first sexual partner and before I met him I could not orgasm. It took 6 months before I could finally climax. Since then my sex life has been quite good. But I have one worry.When I orgasm an unbelievable ammount of liquid squirts out of me. I know it's normal for a bit to come out. But I soak the place. We have to put two towels down when we have sex, and sometimes we lift the towels to find the bed soaked anyway.My boyfriend says that he likes it because it makes him feel as though he's done a good job, but I feel abnormal. He has had a lot of experience in the past and says that he's never met anyone that comes as much as I do. Sometimes he makes a joke that I've wet myself. I find it funnt, but I still feel embarressed. It happens even when the orgasm is not very intence.I'm scared that if we ever break up then I will not feel comfortable enough to start up a sexual relationship again with someone else.Am I abnormal? Is there anything I can do to lesson the ammount I come?
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reader, sophb7  +, writes (6 February 2016):
same happens to me and I actually googled it to find out why it happens. glad it's not just me! I'm sleeping in a puddle 2 feet wide and it's just annoying but my fiancé loves it
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reader, apathyslastkiss  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 speaking as a guy, I can tell you that this actually turns me on, and that there are many guys who wouldn't mind experiencing sex with a women whom has talents such as yourself ;)
But the bottom line is you ought to love, and be comfortable with your partner, and both of you will be comfortable and fine with each others bodies and bodily functions if you are in a relationship of love, respect, and trust.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (22 June 2008):
It happens to me all the time. It is what is called a G-spot cum and you are just fine. Guys really do love it. The only thing I dont like is I always end up having to sleep in the wet spot which sucks but to see his smile and the pride on my fiance's face is worth the wet spot. Dont be embarrassed be proud!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): I have exactly the same thing as you and i find it soo embarrassing!! i literally come buckets! and the first time i did it i thought i had peed myself
i hate it because it normally means we need like 3 towels so impulsive sex in impulsive places can be difficult
but hey you're not the only one!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): I have personal experience of this. First of all it happens to about 2% of the female population so yes, it is quite rare and guys will definitely be well-pleased to have found a girl who can do this.It is just normal female 'lovejuice' by the way.I met a young lady 2 years ago and when we got it on for the first time, I noticed her vagina started to convulse and then become extremely soaking wet - the weirdest feeling. She then explained what had happened. I was pleasantly astounded! Especially as she later gave me a visual treat - phew - what a woman!!!So just enjoy being different, some guys would pay good money for that experience and all guys love it, it is sooo damn sexy!!!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 My friend had the same thing, her bloke thought she had wet herself the first time as she seemed to squirt it out too and there was a lot of it. He thought it was brilliant.
So it's not abnormal at all, all women are different, sometimes I have loads and soak the sheets and sometimes its just a little bit, depends on whther or not it was a quickie or lots of foreplay first.
Dont worry about it, you can always warn any new partners first if you want to but just enjoy the sex and forget about it what is just a bodily function x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 Someone women do that especially if the orgasm is intense. The scientists are not exactly sure about how it all works or even exactly what the liquid is. (well they may be sure but the internet is a hard to place to find the absolute truth)
Yes there is something you can do to come less. Don't have an orgasm. Simple no?
Kidding, it is just the way you are. And that it even happens to you when the orgasm is not that intense just proves it just depends on the woman not on how good the sex is or any secret tricks.
Google squirting to see how it is viewed at least on the internet (turn safe search off and don't do this at work) or read http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation (warning medical close-up of female genitals)
You are not abnormal nor normal, you are just you.
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