Why did he feel the need to bring everything back up...when I was doing so well in getting over him?? I hadn't seen him for months before this!!

A female , anonymous writes:

Hoping for some help here and would appreciate any help I can get. I was with a guy for five years. We broke up in January. It was his decision and I was hearbroken but decided to lay low and have no contact with him. He did not contact me either. Typical breakup and parting of the ways. I saw him at a function a month ago and it went ok and I felt I was over it. I got home that night and there was an email from him...the first in months asking if we could talk. I wish now I had said no. I met up with him in a coffee shop, he seemed in a hurry and almost rude. He mentioned again all the reasons why we had to breakup. I tried to get my feelings out but it was as if he did not want to hear or know of my pain. He thought we had got closure...I thought he had us back to six months ago and I went home near tears. Why would he need to bring this up again and upset me after I thought I was doing so well?

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