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*ex37
writes:I work with a really great man and over the last few months I've fallen in love with him. There's no question that there is a chemistry between us but he's very shy and lacks self-confidence so nothing has actually happened other than lingering looks and deep conversations. I'm leaving the place we work in this week and can't bear the thought of never seeing him again. I've considered sending him a heartfelt email and just pouring it all out but that seems pretty pathetic for a 37 year old woman! How can I get him to understand how I feel without scaring him off? Or do I just move on, get over my broken heart and accept that if he liked me as much as I like him, he'd get over his shyness and ask me out already!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): Boho for you too. But you put yourself out and gave it a try. Now you don't have to torture yourself over what could have been. Your a woman who knows what she wants and dosen't let fear hold her back. This courage you have will eventually bring you the happiness you seek.
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reader, Bex37 +, writes (1 July 2008):
Bex37 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I asked him out and he turned me down flat. No reason given. The end. Boo hoo.
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reader, airhead  +, writes (22 June 2008):
Hi around here they call me arehead (yea I no the name is werd but the boy gives good advise) When I read your entry it really cought my atention and the first thing I have to say sweety is that life is way to short. You never no what can happen today or tomorow. SOOO PLEASE live the rest of your life like its the last day yall ever see. OH and that guy you was talken about you no the shy one. Sweety there is a BIG!!!!!! chance that he feels the same way You do but like you said (HE'S SHY) he may have the same butterfly's you have. So please don't right a Email I no its going to be hard but ask him out for coffee or a mover after work and then tell him (you never know he may be the guy you kiss for the rest of you life. JUST TAKE A CHANCE please!!!!!!! Ill say a prayer 4 u
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