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writes: I recently broke up with my boyfriend we had been seeing each other for a year or so.Although it has been 3 weeks since we broke up and it was him that broke up with me i really miss him and matters arent being helped by the fact that he still talks to me and flirts with me.He says he still wants to go out but see see other people also...i dont want to be together and seeing other people but i dont want to lose him either.Evey time i talk to him its makes me more miserable.the reason we never broke up was because we didnt see much of each other.What should i do?
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 lol yikes i read the headline for this and my first thought was "GET OUTTA THERE FAST, HONEY!"
and after reading the scenario, i still have that impression i'm afraid to say.
he is being completely selfish by flirting with you while you have feelings with him still after he broke up with you. he is being completely selfish by wanting to still have you while he looks for something better.
in fact, if he was next to me right now, i would smack him upside the head and tell him to get over himself!
you need to make it very clear to him that although he was the one who ended the relationship, you want him all or nothing at all. just like the song.
tell him you deserve much better than just part of his love, and that if he wants to date around, you will too!
if he was dumb enough to let you go, be smart enough to walk away.
swear. boys these days.
good luck! if you need someone to help you stay strong you know how to find me.
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