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writes:so me and my ex boyfriend just recently broke up, and right after; he got back with a girlfriend he's been on and off with for about a year. it killed me, but i told him i was fine. after about 2 months of them being together; i finally started talking to him again; and we both knew it - we had a thing for each other; again. he'd use hang out with all of my friends just to be with me; and i'd hangout with his friends to be with him. well one night - while we were all hanging, him and his girlfriend got into a fight, and she went to some big party with her ex boyfriend, who she ends up screwing around with everytime they're together. me and my " crush " knew what was gonna happen; so he pulled me away from everyone and we talked about it. he decided he wanted to give her a taste of her own medicine; so he cheated on her with me; and that was my plan from the beginning. right before he went home that night; he told me we were gonna finish what we started; and i said okay. the next day; he tells all his friends he wants to break up with his girl for me; but yet, he hasn't done it yet, so i'm not sure what to do. should i wait around ? or no ?
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 No honey, you always want to be someone's number one choice, not their number two.
Go out and date other boys who will think of you as their Plan A; not Plan B.
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reader, dazednconfsed +, writes (22 June 2008):
I agree with the last person. Im kind of in the same situation. If you really want to see how this person feels about you, leave him alone and see if he comes back to you. If he loves or cares enough; he'll come back. If he doesn't then you'll get your answer too. Just dont sit around, wait, and make it hard on yourself. Go out, have fun, enjoy life and live it. geez, i should listen to my own advice lol. but either way you're going to do what youll want to do. I know how it is, you want to wait but what if he doesn't come back right? I guess thats the hardest part..good luck
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reader, paradise +, writes (22 June 2008):
 As difficult as it may be, back off and go about your business. Date other guys, go out with friends. Don't wait around for him. If he really likes you then he'll come after you. Make him work hard to get you, then you'll be his prize!
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