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writes:Okay so here it goes...I have been thinking for a long time about this and i'm still not entirely sure but i think i migth be bisexual... and i know there is nothing wrong with it...Just yesterday i had a chat with my closest friend and told her that i thought i might be. She was very understanding and said that its okay and she actaulyl has alot of bisexual friends which made me feel more comfortable. She also said that i need to tell people about it soon. Which i agree with. But i'm finding it hard because i know alot of people dont agree with this kind of thing. This had nothing to do with me becoming bi or anything but last week me and my friends were playing truth or dare and a few times i was dared to kiss other girls. 2 of which were my other 2 closest friends (my closest friend wasn't there) it didnt mean anything because i see them as friends and nothing else but im scared to tell them because of this. In case they feel uncomfortable about it or wierded out.The hardest thing of all will be telling my family which i know will be the last people i tell and it wont be for a long time...? can anyone helpp.s. sorry its long! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you - accused =) xx
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reader, accused  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 I can relate to your current situation. My brother is gay, he went for so long not saying a word to anyone. Even though you could just tell he was, he would lie & say that he wasn't. Looking back now, I realize why he lied, he was protecting our family, and was more terrified about what our Dad would say or do. Eventually he broke down and told us. It was hard to deal with at first because you have all these concerns, but the bottom line is this: If you feel that you are truly attracted to both sexes, and there could ever be a chance that you would be in a relationship with another woman then you should not hide it. People will draw their conclusions to your life, don't they always? As far as your two friends that you were dared to kiss, they maybe a little upset because if they don't swing the way you do, then you've made them feel weird.. The biggest thing about people who are straight is they fear that the gay or bi person will want them... Which is totally not right.... but thats the way things are... If these two friends are your true friends then hopefully they will understand.. Just try and explain to them that just because your bi does not mean that you "WANT" every female you see! Please keep me posted..
Best of luck,
Accused
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reader, lotty83 +, writes (22 June 2008):
ok,if your family find out last they might be even more upset,also if ur family or even some of them can support u its strange that you may feel like u can take the world on with this. If ur friends are weirded out then they are silly,as they should know if they are straight then ur not gona be trying it on etc. Please be confident in urself, any1 that starts isnt worth having about and ur better off without. This is when ur gona find out who's ur true mate and who's not.
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