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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year.We are young, I'm 19 he's 21. We are deeply in love. We don't fight about much except one thing. sex. We used to have great sex. The sex was always so great for the both of us...but lately something is wrong. Neither of us are truly enjoying it. He has trouble getting a hard on and has trouble finishing. We never used to have this problem but the past month it just hasn't been the same. We try talking about it but we both just blame ourselves. It's really putting a burden on our relationship and it's something I think about day and night. I mean it's gotten so bad I have nightmares about it. I'm not sure if this happens to couples this young. or even what to do about it. Please help. I worry this will ruin our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe watches porn a lot. I don't. We don't watch it during or anything.
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reader, logicdebates +, writes (23 June 2008):
If you two choose celibacy and realize there is more to a relationship than sex, you can move on and focus on all the other good qualities you two have. A celibate relationship is much happier and more meaningful. No more arguments about "sex" when you move on. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Are you two using a lot of porn? Need a little more detail.
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