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writes:i like my b/f but i also like this other guy that is related to him and i dont know if he is trustworthy. i really like my b/f and the other guy alot but i dont know if i can trust him. becuase he has a g/f and he said he will break up with her for me but how do i know that he wont break up with me for someone else. so what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, smellycat016 +, writes (22 June 2008):
 ive been in the same situation...if you are both serious about the situation of being together then you know what has to be done.you cant stay with both guys...thats just wrong. if you're wiling to break up with your current boyfriend then it'll show him your serious.honestly, you dont know. You dont know anything thats going to happen you just have to hope for the best, and that everything works out.if you do break up with your current bf, be prepared if it doesnt work out with the other guy.in my opinion, if youre already second guessing your relationship with your current bf, then it's obviously something thats not interesting you anymore. move on! who knows whatll happen. with me, everything turned out great, it sucked waiting but it is by far the best relationship ive been in so far. life is all about chances so why not give it your all and go for it?its too short for what ifs and regrets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Q. How do you know that this guy is trustworthy?
A. You don't. And quite frankly if he's willing to break up with his current girlfriend for you, he is likely to do the same again. Also the same could be said about you. He could be thinking, should I really trust her? And the thing is he would want you to break up with your boyfriend before he breaks up with his girlfriend and he might change his mind and then you would have left a good guy for no gain. And evenif you did split up with your boyfriend and he did the same with his girlfriend you wouldn't be able to gt together for at least a month. Also it could cause a stir in the family in which you would be the spoon. I advise you not to pursue in this unless you get to know him more and feel you could tell him anything. Stick with your boyfriend.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 Self-reflection, you are doing it wrong.
We don't know if this 2nd guy is trustworthy, but we sure know about you don't we?
Arent't you doing the exact same thing? How does the 2nd guy know you are not going to break up with him for someone else JUST as you are doing with your first bf now?
You are still young and emotions come strong and fast at that age but sweetie, if you want someone you can thrust you need to be worthy of thrust first.
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