A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Heyyy..Well around 18 months ago me and this guy dated, and we had sex. I loved him then and i still do now, i no he use to love me but he has currently got a girlfriend. We have always remained close since the breakup, but today we met up and we gave eachother oral sex. He curently has a girlfriend and i no we shouldn't have done it but i feel so relaxed and happy round him, like i can be my true self. He made the 1st move as well. But i don't no what to expect now, whether he should finish his girlfriend, or act like nothing happened. I don't think he would use me for sex, but if he doesn't finish his girlfriend has he used me. Help!
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reader, Firefly-x3 +, writes (23 June 2008):
 The truth can hurt, but that's what I'm here to give. And to be totally honest - he IS using you.
You probably feel relaxed around him because you've known him so long. Don't try and make him finish with his girlfriend - that would eventually leave you with alot of guilt. I sense that you're insecure and feel that you need this guy in your life in some way - You don't.
Go out with your friends and forget about him. Move on forward and you'll be happier. Remember, as the saying goes: Never make someone a priority in your life, if you're only an option if their life.
Good luck! 3
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