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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am dating this guy, will I use the term 'dating' loosely. He wants to see other people, and scared of losing him altogether I agreed.Then at a celebration we both went to we told each other that we loved each other, but we were drunk and said it in our mother-tongues so i guess it wasn't official. However, I meant it and I still do.Then when we went clubbing I saw him dancing with loads of girls and I told him that I can't do this whole seeing other people thing, but I stupidly said that he can carry on doing it if he wants.I try to act as if it doesn't affect me but it does. I try act as if I am cool with just being his friend but I'm not. I can't talk to anyone about it cause I'm really shy and uncomfortable with those issues. What should I do?From I'm so confused
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Heya.
My advice would be to tell this boy straight that you love him and you want to be in a proper relationship with him because its hurting to see him with other girls.
If he really loved you he would agree to be with just you. If not its your choice to keep going on as you are or to find a boy who will love you and be with you.
Hope this helped
Olivia.
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