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*onfused1985
writes: I’m a virgin and I’m horny all the time to the point that I get headaches if I don’t masturbate!I can masturbate up to 12 times a day and it is still not enoughWhat do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): man im 14 and i jack off (masturbate) all the time thinking of hot girls, hot cousins, some hot moms, even of guys sumetimes but im straight okay so its naturaldont wrry bout it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Make a virtue of necessity and handle your problem as an opportunity.
You should have a lot of energy so use it well.
You cold find yourself a special woman with a high libido, there are also women with the same needs and more than you might think. (to my experience, these women like cuddling, kissing and sometimes protection more then average) and for some reason women needs more sleep.
Start a business that you can work together or be together or travel together (some ideas: Home office with internet shop - selling B2B on commission - realestate online) what is your actual specialty, where could you give extra value.
You will have to do some extra education and need new skills, but you will develop yourself and create a speclial life.
I speak from experience :)
(my former neighbour, about 30 years ago already, also had a lot of energy, build his own house (later his own restaurant), started selling on the market take away food together with his spouse and at the moment the presure came to high he said : sorry clients, we have to close the door for 15 minutes :) Nobody many peaple have so much guts (in a relative small community) and nobody is asking this from you.
What I want to tell you is: Create your own life, that suits to your nature.
This applies not only to you, but obviously for everybody.
hope you got some handles
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Babes you really sound like you have too much time on your hands and you are using masturbation to deal with boredom. Some people do that and also use masturbation to get rid of stress.. All very good, but not when you spend so much time doing this that you fail to develop properly other parts of your life.
Your single and when a girlfriend comes along, then your masturbation should decrease. In the meantime, find other things to do with yourself. Join a club, write a diary online, learn another language. Pick up a hobby you like and promise yourself you'll become expert at that. You don't have to stop masturbating, but you could slow down and find other things to do with your time that would help you develop and go forward in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): You must have a lot of energy..
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reader, Confused1985 +, writes (21 December 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't have a Girl Friend but I am trying lol and I don't cum unusually fast
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): There is a different issue going on here. I think you're using masturbation to self medicate. The thing that is unusual is you can orgasm that much! God damn I wish I could but anyway... uh when I had a terrible headache REALLY bad one but too sick to get to the Tylenol and when my leg was broken but I didn't have any pain meds, I masturbated to help relieve the pain. So, you might not be physically addicted like you think.There could be some sort of circulation problem. Go the doctor and get an EEG or something maybe you suffer from Migraines. But seriously how do you find the time? Does it not take long?
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reader, Confused1985 +, writes (21 December 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do work and I don't look at porn very often lol
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reader, Bill23 +, writes (21 December 2008):
Wow I don't know what to tell yo but do you have a girlfriend by any chance. Yo can hurt yourself by making that area very sore and raw.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 December 2008):
All I can suggest is that you get a girlfriend!
Also, I take it if you are doing that 12 times a day that you are unemployed and sat at home looking at naked ladies online.
Get a job to take your mind off your penis and that might also help.
Good Luck!! xx
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