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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help cupid! i've been making myself lovesick for the past year over this teacher of mine. I know everyone hates hearing about these, but i myself, hate me for feeling this way, because no matter how hard i try to forget about these feelings, i cant. I've tried so hard getting over over him and moving on to other guys that are my age, but not one single guy has caught my eye. This sounds really cheesy i know, and i know that eventually i'm going to forget all about him when i get out of high school, but it seems like i'm always going to feel this way. Iknow this is wrong and that nothing can never happen between us, because he could loose his job, or we could get in serious trouble. These feelings i have for him, are so strong, i feel like sometimes that we were always mean't to be together, but one of us was just born in the wrong year. I'm not just going on a simple crush, im pretty sure he's attracted to me, and might have feelings for me, because he looks at me a lot, and whenever i'm in his class, he looks at me, and when i turn to look at him, he quickly turns away...he might always do this, but i notice he fixes his clothing, or tie when i'm around, and strokes his face. There was a moment wen i looked up at him, and he was looking at me, and neither of us turned away for what seemed like forever...i need help, i don't know what to do, and i really want to move on, and find guys my age...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): For me, it was hard at that age because all the guys looked like little kids. There's nothing wrong with a small age difference for your age, but believe me, nothing is going to happen with this teacher. I had a lot of male teachers who flirted with me--maybe a few really would have cheated on their wives--but most of these teachers really just needed an ego boost, and having all of their female students develop big crushes on them provided that. I had a teacher who just embarrassed me in front of the whole class all of the time, talking about me and praising every answer I gave like it was flowing from a prophetic stream of wisdom, but when I approached him after the class ended, he acted like he didn't know me.
I really wouldn't invest too much of yourself into this love. You might feel hurt later on. Look at him as a friend, an older brother or perhaps a model for the guys you want to be with later on. Right now, you're too young to hook up with your soul mate. You should always enter your twenties as a single woman.
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