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anonymous
writes:I have always had a very low sex drive...I enjoy it once I get into it but it sometimes feels like I have to force myself to get into the mood. I've always had a much lower sex drive than boyfriends, which has often led to problems. I feel like such a freak. Can I do anything about it?
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (23 December 2008):
 I'm so pleased it's not a self esteem issue and good for you i'm sure you are very attractive and it's not big headed at all!
Are you and your fella busy people are you making enough time to be intimate. I don't just mean having sex but spending time together being romantic.
I never feel closer to my fella than when we have sat and talked and talked about everything laughed alot then gone to bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008):
There is ample evidence from a range of experts, research and most of all, from women themselves that a strong pelvic floor muscle can greatly improve your sexual arousal, your sexual response, the level of sensation you feel during intercourse, and your ability to reach an orgasm. Laura Berman wrote the book :The passion prescription. www.drlauraberman.com
From my own experience, the women with a strong control on their Pelvic floor muscle are the women with the highest libido (close to nymphomania), what they also had/have in common is need for spicy food and not using 'the Pill'.
The pill can be to my experience for some womena real libido-killer, but you said that you are not any medication.
A product that gives you more energy, is Maca from the mountains from Peru, it also has a positive affect on the libido for women and is healthy.
Libido is for sure something genetic, but also for sure everybody can increase his or her libido.
If I was as woman :) with your (temporary) low libido feelings, I would start to read everything on internet about increasing libido in a natural way.
I would start to train my pelvic floor muscle during the day, but also when I am walking and develop a style of walking that makes me feel sexy (look around of you in the city what kind of footwear you see and how a-sexual people are walking), start having some (many) naughty fantasies, start to eat Maca 4-5 800Mg a day, eat more spicy protein food, train my naughty eyes (when you look naught you will feel it) and give my sexy look and last but not least follow a course bellydancing.
I forgot almost something, also a good lover could discover your hidden libido.
Hope my reaction is inspires you and if it helped it would be nice and interesting if you could inform us a few months later
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't have low self esteem, I'm not totally big headed but I do know I am attractive...Not on any medication whatsoever...I've just been assuming that it's something in my hormones or genes or something :(
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (21 December 2008):
Your not a freak. I felt very much the same a while ago. I didn't know at the time but my low sex drive was a confidence issue. I didn't find my self sexy so how could anyone else?
If it's not your confidence Zinc is very good for sex drive i think it can be found in pumpkin seeds and brought it tablet form.
There are medication that can affect sex drive.
Are you on any medication that could be affecting you?
I hope this helps
xx
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