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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Once you have exchanged saliva and bodily fluids,you just cannot be going back to being as friends.This is my opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): I think it is possible! I had a friend with benfits for about a year. We would talk about everything. anytime one of us would need somthing we would be there for each other and 6 months later we still call each other just to ask for advice or talk! He is so open with me and i with him.because you dont have to worry about judgement with anything. But his girlfriend hates me. They werent togther when him and i were having sex but they were before ( i had nothing to do with the break-up) and after. My current boyfriend knows but he realizes that was before him and knows i wont cheat on him.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 No one should EVER have sex for fun with a friend or with anyone else.
Whether or not you save sex for marriage is a personal decision, but it's not something that you do with just anyone... there has to be love and commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Yes but feeling may start flying around and then there could be a weird vibe between you all
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reader, Confused1985  +, writes (21 December 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the question She does have a Boy Friend at the moment but she wants to have sex now with someone she feels comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): yup... i have a friend who i have fun with every now and again, we are best friends. We have sex sometimes, and then go back to being friends. I can be done
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 December 2008):
Well ask yourself:
If you had sex with her for the next few weeks and then if she met an amazing guy, could you happily step right back and watch her go off with a new boyfriend?
If you could then go for it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Confused1985 +, writes (21 December 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do like her a lot and care about her loads but I don't think it's anymore than me being good friends with her
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reader, Bill23 +, writes (21 December 2008):
As long as no one starts to get feelings
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 December 2008):
Yep!
As long as there are absolutely no romantic feelings on either part.
Good Luck!! xx
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