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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy(Ricky) and he is so sweet, he's gorgeous, and he seems to get really shy around me. But one of my friends really likes him, I feel guilty every time I think about him. He acts as if he likes me, but how can I be sure? Should I forget about him if my friend likes him? My friend also like this other guy(jake) who is one of my other friends, Jake likes her too, so I am giving them time to spend getting to know each other, and all I ever hear about from her is these two guys, and all I hear from Jake is her. Should I wait till she gets together with Jake? Im so confused, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): Hi,
You seems to be very good friends, otherwise you would not have guilty feelings. If I was in your situation, I would say to my friend something like the following:
x, I need your help as my real friend(she will appriciate when you ask for her help, with this 'help' approach you will in the future be able to solve many little issues),
Our friendship is more important that anything, because it's hopefully forever and the love feelings at our age is in 99% something temporary.
I see that you are interested in Jake and that he can only talk about you, but you also like Ricky. I feel that Ricky has interests in me and that I have to admit that I also feel attracted to him, but I have guilty feelings because of you, but I don't know what to do.
Hope it helps you, good luck
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