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He doesn't want to tempt the friendship...

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Question - (21 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2008)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have a bisexual guy best friend.

he says im amazing but doesnt want to tempt the friendship..even tho he used to have a massive crush on me

he sends me mixed signals..for example on friday we went for lunch then out that night ..he came over and hugged me and kissed my neck then gave me a proper snog. i still feel a connection with us, i am going with another guy but 80% of my heart loves him

outside he said "i thought we were sorted" even tho hes always the one to kiss me? =S do u think this guy doesnt know what he wants, he always makes the first move. its so hard to get over him :(

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 December 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHe sounds very confused and it would probably be better just to keep him as a friend for now, as he sounds like he'd treat you like a yo-yo if you were his girlfriend. He can still be a special person to you, even if you aren't dating. And try to be honorable with regards to your boyfriend. If you don't really want him, let him go find another girlfriend, someone who will give him her full attention.

Good luck.

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