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*ourdestiny
writes:My boyfriend says im not tight anymore like I used to be. So he calls me a slut and horror cause he says im cheating. Its really sad actually cause I dont go anywhere EVER and i'm always with him if im not at work, so he says im doing it a work (which is not possible) I tell him we used to do it when I wasn't even wet at all not I get wetter so im looser he thinks im full of shit and im cheating. He even goes far as telling me I smell like sex. Mind you he picks me up from work and drops me off every day. Outside of work we have never been apart in 4 years (no lie). We talk to eachother all day while im at work. I dont even want to have sex with him anymore cause right after he starts yelling calling me names saying I slept with someone cause im not tight as I used to be. I dont know what it is but it really is killing our relationship. I dont know what to do anymore. He's making me hate him. He's so passionate that im cheating on him any body know what im going through?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): thank you for your insight and i agree 100% with you i think he has issues from his past and its really to bad i have to deal with his anger issues. thanks again
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reader, yourdestiny +, writes (21 December 2008):
yourdestiny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you again and i think he is just crazy and insecure really now about him having an affair i dont think so we are never apart in 4 yrs only when im at work which then hes home doing nothing we talk constenly its hard to explain i think i will slowly work on the process of leaving i will be the one that has to leave but hopefully in the meantime he comes down which he has been like this the hole time we been together so i doubt that will happen. have a great night and thanks again
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reader, yourdestiny +, writes (21 December 2008):
yourdestiny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for that one thing that i do is defend myself thats when he gets really pissed off and says im guilty cause i get so mad hes bothers the hell out of me when he is like this i hate that he thinks of me like he does, he thinks all woman are horrors i tell him you cant judge everyone the same cause not all woman are like that but he just says im an idiot whats really sad is i cant even say a word about my boss cause he thinks ive been sleeping with him since i started my job (which is disgusting) and thats the only reason why i got promoted to general manager it cant be cause im smart enough being that im stupid im sorry for rambling on and on thank you for your response though i appreciate it very much
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reader, yourdestiny +, writes (21 December 2008):
yourdestiny is verified as being by the original poster of the question"Ok question upon my first question like i said my man thinks i cheat because im not tight like use to be. now he is big on calling me fat which im 5"1 and about 140 pounds which i dont think is bad but he does and its gotten so bad that he is always telling me to get out. he hates me. im a slut. i dont know what to do i ahve built a life with this man and people say its easy to just leave but in reality its not he doesnt hit me which he does threaten to but he doesnt but he does get so angry that i feel he feels so deeply that i cheat on him that he might do something one day. i have to walk on egg shells around him i cant talk to him about anything because he always takes shit the wrong way. i just need some encouragement or something from someone anybody know how i am feeling "
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