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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This seems to be a common question, but there is this guy I really like, I even told him I like him and when I did he sounded really confused.You see the thing is, he has a Girlfriend. Apparently he liked me when I was still with my ex so I was less nervous telling him how I felt than I have done with guys in the past.Anyway, I called him the next day to see if he was ok and to ask if he was actually confused or not, and he said he felt the same way, that was why he was confused. My friends all told me I was being stupid and some of them are good friends with his girlfriend.One of these friends was talking to someone about it when the girlfriend overheard. She confronted him about it and he told her not to worry. He then told me he was going to stay with her. It broke my heart and I don't think I can get over him. I truly love him, I know I'm young, but my feelings for him are really strong, is he staying with her because he doesn't want to hurt her? Because he wants to take the easier option, or is it because he truly loves her more than me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I wrote this and I forgot to add that he was thinking of breaking up with her before she found out. Also, as much as I like him, I'm not the type of person to settle for second best. So could there be any telltale signs that maybe he likes me more than her?Her relationships also dont last for long AT ALL. So could he perhaps be waiting for her to end it so he doesnt seem like the bad guy in the end?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): if he wanted to b with you he would be, he probably does have feelings for you but hes in a relationship and you should leave him alone... if they break up then there you go but dont get involved especially if you have mutual friends with the girlfriend
he knows you like him and he knows your there if he decides to break up with her but in the meantime look on. Imagine you were with him in a few months and some girl was saying that stuff to him.
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