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writes:So i met a guy who has a girlfriend who is about 3 months pregnant. He started calling me alot always wanting to hang out. I hung out with him a few times and he was always trying to kiss me but i wouldent let him. I was not attracted to him and i knew he had a girlfriend! He would always say how his girlfriend doesnt make him happy at all and how they always argue. I asked him then why are you still with her and why are you having a child with her? He responds i always told myself i would stick with the woman who has my child. He made it clear that he wanted to have sex with me. After about 2/3 months i had sex with him. Then we started hanging out a lot more and had sex a lot more. He told me he liked me and wanted to be with me but he is confused because he has a girlfriend. I stoped having sex with him after i realized a made a terrible mistake by having sex with a guy who has a gf! We would still hangout and kiss but no sex! Now his girlfriend had the baby. He still calls me and i feel like he only calls because he still thinks there is slight chance i will have sex with him (which is not going to happen). I dont want to see him at all anymore because when we do hang out we end up kissing and he always TRYS to have sex. I feel hurt and used, i got emotionally attatched. I told him how i feel but i'm not sure if i should tell him again and make it more clear? Should i tell him i dont want to talk to him anymore? Or should i act like everything is okay and make up an excuse when he asks me to chill?
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reader, 48years  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Would you believe that women as old as me still wrestle with the same question?
Usually the guy tells you who he is, if you listen. Nicekid's right. Question your feelings. Love is an action-and this guy doesn't feel it from the sound of things. A lot of men seem to think that sex is like a pleasant game of cards. It's fun, you like the other players, but you don't necessarily want a relationship with them beyond a nice game of poker now and then.
A guy worth keeping is the kind who has to work for your attention.
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reader, brokenandconfused +, writes (21 December 2008):
 i've been there and back! my brothers friend had a girl friend but i didn't know they had a baby together. he told me he liked me but we never had sex.(it's against my religion to have sex before marriage) one day he asked me to hang out with him. i did. he gave me a promise ring that nite and the same nite he proposed to his girlfriend. when i found out about this i wanted to die inside. i had fallin in love with this guy. all i'm saying is if he won't leave her to be with you then he is not worth your time. let him go! you're better off without him!
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