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writes:to make things clear, i am a bisexual thirteen year old.i like a guy, but he likes my ex girlfriend. i completely hate my ex. (i told her that im bi, and made her promise not to tell, and only a few people know it. and she did. she told ALOT of people)im not sure if hes straight or not, but he seems very straight. i want to know how to know for sure if hes completely straight, and if i can figure out if hes into me. (my friends say he might be, because he talks about me and stuff like that)im not sure. i want to be with him, but im not sure if hes into guys, too. i need help, please.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 December 2008):
 It's always tricky to try to date someone who has dated your ex, no matter what gender all the parties are. I think you should just lie low for now, and give yourself some time to observe people. Eventually, you'll figure out if he's straight or not, but for now, assume that he is straight, as he seems to like your ex, who is a girl.
There's no harm in just waiting and seeing. Patience is a difficult thing to learn, but it will serve you well through life. So just relax, and watch, but not too obviously.
Good luck.
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reader, Cuddlybear  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Honesty is the best policy, ask him! if you're not comfortable with asking then get to know him abit more, maybe say silly things like "isnt he hot". if a guy walks past, see his reaction. If he agrees he may just be joking though, try not to make a big deal out of it, if he likes you, then it doesnt matter what sexuality he is.
hope this helps
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