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How can I get them to accept me and not see me as a bad person?

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Question - (21 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2008)
A female Philippines age 36-40, *anea88 writes:

me and my boyfriend had been together now for 2 years and we have a 4 month old baby. we are currently living in his family's house it's quite big so they decided to move us in since they will be supporting us financially.

his family doesn't like me, because they think that i am only after their money.They speak good words infront of me then criticize me on my back. Even his brother says bad things about me. My boyfriend and I can't do anything because talking to them will only worsen the situation. And no one can defend me since my parents are already dead. I can't defend myself cause i have my child to think about, they will separate me with m child if i talk to them back. I dont know what to do anymore. Everything that i do in this house is always wrong for them. I'm so frustrated.What can i do for them to accept me and not to think of me as bad person.

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (21 December 2008):

Plexi agony auntKill them with kindness. Give them nothing bad to say about you. Be the best mom you can be, be kind and corteus around them and soon they will realize that they didnt like you because of their own insecurities.

Put on a smile girl and just be a good person:)

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