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female
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anonymous
writes:I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed together if we had been closer in distance. Now, it's been about a year, but everytime we see each other something ends up happening between us. This time, now that we are both home for Christmas, he is seriously dating a friend from our high school. I want him back and I think we would still be dating if we lived closer, plus i don't feel like we ever really got over each other because we only broke up because of distance. I need advice! we have all the same friends, and they say he still asks about me, and he still calls me sometimes (usually when he's been drinking) saying that he wants to visit and he misses me, but he's still with her. What should I do if I still want him back, and is he really over me. Also, she's my complete opposite...she's goody goody and i'm so much the not innocent, tell-it-like-it-is, real type of person..which is what he loved in the first place. How do I win him back, or is he really with this girl for good, and is he REALLY over me. I don't know what to do, it makes everyone feel awkward when I'm around and both of them are too that it makes me feel like I should just leave, when really they are more my friends than hers...but they are all our friends somewhat. HELP!!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (23 December 2008):
l think he is moving on with his life since he is now seeing someone else
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tell him how you feel and that you still want him back and see how he responds,asking about you may mean he still wants you but isn't willing to let go of his current girlfriend since he isn't sure about you,about whether you will last this time
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (23 December 2008):
I think he is moving on with his life since he is now seeing someone else but tell him how you feel and that you still want him back and see how he responds, asking about you may mean he still wants you but isn't willing to let go of his current girlfriend since he isn't sure about you, about whether you will last this time.
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