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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Earlier this year,this guy i knew in person a long time ago,and have recently got back intouch with online,asked to see more photos of me,as he didnt recognise me,since we hadnt seen each other for a long time,and only knew each other abit in person before,and he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him,after he saw my new photos,i said he was attractive,but said i would rather get to know him as a person first,so nothing happened after that till recently,as for some reason,after i said he was attractive,he told me not to say that to him,which i thought was strange.They were ordinary,sent photos by the way !.He had only recently broke up with his ex then.But more recently,he sent me a message out the blue mentioned that we hadnt spoke for a long time,and now he is actually having proper conversations with me about my interests and my job,e.t.c,and it turns out we like similar things,he has been impressed by the things i like.He didnt have proper conversations with me online before,and i was really taken aback when he sent me a message out the blue !.Not sure if i'm reading this the wrong way,but i wonder if he just wasnt ready for a new relationship after he split up with his ex,and now that it has been a long time since they broke up,he is ready for a new relationship ?.Perhaps he has fancied me since we got back intouch,but only now wants to do something about it.I'm not sure.why are some guys so confusing ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): i've told him some things that probably sound far fetched,but i hope he doesnt think they are,as they are all absolutely true.I have a relative who is a sound engineer and as worked on the albums of some famous singers and bands,and i told him about my interest in acting,as i studied it at college,and i'm thinking of looking for an agent e.t.c,and how i've met some celebrities,which i thought were interesting things to talk about.I have also asked him questions,such as what he does for work,and what he has been up to lately,e.t.c.
I was confused as to why he only asked for sex first and because of him making proper conversation now after all this time,but i want to just forget what he said before as like you said,maybe men are just made to be that way : )
This might not seem like a big deal,but i wonder if the fact that he sends me private messages,rather than leaving comments on my page,which anyone can see,may mean that he is intersted in me ?.As you said, i wont rush into anything though,i will just make general conversation with him for a while.He leaves other people comments on their pages,that's why i wondered why he hasnt done that with me.I do like him aswell though.I read on his page that he has done some acting before,so that's something we have in common,he might tell me about that when he replies again,and i know that we both like going to watch shows at the theatre aswell.I'm not sure if we have anything else in common yet.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (23 December 2008):
 okay no offence to guys that answer this but they are prob made to be that way (: maybe he does want a new relationship, but don't go in too quickly, get to know him again, it sounds like its definetely been a while since the two of you spoke and had a true laugh with each other. get the laughter flowing again before you consider anything further (:
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