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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i been seein this guy for a week now yes i know a week is not long but its nearly to weeks anyways his mum has had it tuff with her husband cheatin on her n leavin her n she decided its easier to run away.anyways he then tells me he is leavin at the end of the month so all is good i think nuthin much of it n think mayb we could spend a bit more time together n b together. anyways bout to days later he comes round an says we r leavin on chrissy day. now this broke my heart as finally as i am happy things go an put a wall up. this bloke he has made me happy. when he first told me he was movin to another state he asked me to leave with him.now his mum is a strong beliver in crystals an has a crystal u can ask questions to.so i tohrt i would give it a shot n i asked it four questions first one was would we b together n it said yes. than i asked it would we b happy n again it stated a yes. than i asked it would we b together for a long time again it stated yes. so i thort i would crack it n ask would he b the bloke i married n again it said yes. now i dont really belive in this sort of stuff but wat i need to know is will he b my boy n will we b together cause my heart is breakin every day i see him n i have 4 days left til he leaves n i know deep down im gonna b heart broken. now also his mum went an saw sum1 an asked if her boy would b gettin on the plane to go with her n it came back with to answers first one bein i dont think so sumthnig is holdin him back n the second one was a no cause there is a girl here for him.now i dont belive this either as he has said to me he is gettin on this plane plz sum1 i need to know if we will b together im fallin more n more for him n im dyin nowin he is leavin Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I know how tough it is to be in love and not be able to be together! I am in a very long distance relationship and there are times that it kills me! And other times I'm just grateful to have him in my life! We want to be together, but we just keep going round and round about which one of us is going to move to the other. If I was your age I'd be at his place by now! But because of our ages and health issue, insurance, and jobs, it makes it more complicated! I've always been impulsive, and ready to pick up and go anywhere...it's frustrating that now that I have met the man that I truly believe is my soulmate, everything is so complicated...
Take risks now while you are young! Don't worry about the "what ifs" You can deal with them as they come! Two weeks is an awful short time though, but maybe you can catch up with him in the future. Keep in touch, see how it goes. And when the time is right go for it! Let him know that you aren't writing him off...and that you will consider going there soon.
LDRs are difficult but no amount of distance can defeat true love!
Good Luck!
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