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I'm getting sick of his porn/masturbation addiction!

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Question - (21 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *abyblues03 writes:

My boyfriend likes to masterbait alot!!! When I ask if its me he says no....We have been together for almost 4 years I thought our relationship was fine but I seem to always find porn sites.....I was thinking that he was addicted to porn but I just cause him masterbaiting in the bathroom after we had already had sex today. What do i do im getting really sick of this and i dont want to do somthing i might regreat but im feeling like he is not in love with me anymore....someone please give me some advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008):

Hi Babyblue, a lot of women seem to have the same problem as you. But I haven't any ideas on how to get a man to stop masturbating. Men seem to enjoy it, and it's his hand and his penis, and he has sex with you, so he probably doesn't see it as any problem. It's got nothing to do with love, I'm sure that he loves you a lot. When you found him masturbating after having sex, why didn't you just have sex with him again. It sounds like your guy has a very high sex drive and wants to have sex all the time. Maybe if you have sex all the time with him, then he won't have any need to masturbate again. But if you really can't stand it, then finish the relationship and find somebody who doesn't have the need to do such things. It's hard to stop somebody masturbating without causing them to have sexual hangups and go off sex all together, just ask mothers who have to try to stop little boys from masturbating in the wrong place.

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