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Can someone tell me what he wants?

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Question - (21 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *ortiz56 writes:

We started dating and everything was fine until we had sex for about 2 months and next thing i know he says he just wants to be friends but he still acts the same but we aren't having sex anymore. Soo I don't know what he wants? We also work at the same job but different department so he knows my schedules very well and when i go on break for lunch he will show up and try to conversate with me, an this after I have told him that we cannot be friends because I don't see him that way. He still goes out of his way to talk to me. Wow, I really don't know what he wants? I asked him an his answer is "He just wants a friendship" But every weekend we text each other 4 to 5 times a day to talk for 1 to 2 hrs each time. Is he in love and doesnt know it?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2008):

He just wants to be friends.

The fact you keep talking to him despite the fact you have said you don't want to be just friends is giving out mixed signals to him.

Either be strong and tell him that you DO NOT WANT him to talk to you or text you or call you EVER AGAIN!

Or

Be his friend.

Good Luck!! xx

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