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*ena
writes:hi i been having alot relationship problems with my boyfriend. i don't know where to start, i with him 2 years. and from day one, woman been in our relationship his ex, her ringing him just friends,. that fine then at job he texing girls from his job, said just friends. he lot girl friends one his best friends and i started too except it and trust him, so then he went on hoildays with his mate (girl friend) for a week. while on holidays he cheated on me not with his friend but some girl in a club, his friend seen him and slapped him for cheating on me, and they not got on since,, but when he returned home he told me eveything but said he got spiked tat nite and could not remember kissing anyone and attempted kill him self tat nite because wat he had done on me.... but he had tell me cas his friend said she going tell me if he did'nt,, having him telling me he said was sick and he ended up a and e hospital next day but was hydated, was it from been spiked or too much drink??? ah things just got worse since, he decided go for year to austriala left heart broken then he came back three months later,saying came home for me, i was so happy and hoping for fresh start but witin week, i found him emailing some woman he made so called friends with on hoildays.. and there was a picture of her on motorbike and my boyfriend left comment you look shit hot,, hes says means cool not sexy. then he denies he as facebook account and guess wat she on it and theres lots pictures woman in biknis on beach all big happy family, his gang buddies on holidays, its soo messed up i keep giving him soo many chances i live with him and i have watch him all time we now share a little business,so we live in each other shoes actually i soo thick i give him 5,000 wish was aLL my decision for him get plastic surgry..he always hates his nose so i did for him, maybe i thought it open his eyes.. he not cheated since tat cas watching him all time and he with me 24/7.. but i now notice he looks at women on street and i caught him looking at woman legs, he said he sorry for looking he said tat its man thing, and its not sex thing he just judges people the way they dress, i don't get it why he just not stop he says he loves me so much and he has changed,,i just want respect i am going into depression again cas this and i have no confidence.. is every man like this?????? Please help me?????????????????????????????????
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reader, xena +, writes (3 June 2009):
xena is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for replies, only thing i still with him.. i taught get better but it did'nt he now obessed to porn another thing to break my heart more. he says he going get help but enough is enough,, i in separate bedrooms now and am waiting move out, me and my dog only good thing came out this horrible 2 year relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Sweetheart you better get out while you still feel that you are worth something, all men are not the same, see you get 2 types of men
1. the type who are dogs
2. the type who are trying their utmost best not to be dogs
u cant blame your man for looking its like walking past a shop seeing a nice dress and looking, people are attracted to pretty things, but he should respect you enough not to go against your wishes, do you think this man is worthy of your heart? Do you think giving him a nose job is gona make him treat you like you deserve to be treated, no its not gona happen, he is not even trying and I can guarantee you that he lies about most of the things his telling you.
Then keeping him strapped to your site, not giving him the opportunity to Fuck other woman doesn’t mean that he doesn’t not want to, it just means as soon as you lift the ball and chain from his ankle that he will start running. Don’t blame yourself for him being a pig, you sound like a good woman who needs a good man to love honor and respect you for the rest of your life not some dude who sees you as his pocket girl, kick him out take your own life back, go get your hair done, buy yourself a new outfit and go out for a night on the town with some girlfriends…. Just don’t let this guy ruin you cut him lose
Let me know what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): no every man is not like that and your boyfriend will never change. its not healthy for either of you if you have to watch his every move, he clearly isnt worth it. It doesnt matter how much you do for him you have to either accept him for who he is or find someone else who actually deserves you!
u seem like a sweet girl and you've really played the devoted girlfriend and he hasnt earned any trust from you.. you know deep down he has to go! relationships never work without honesty and if hes lying about something as simple as having a facebook account god knows what you dont know about.
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