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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am dating this guy. he said he is too busy with work to have time for a serious relationship. anytime i visit him, he doesnt write or call to know if i got home okay. not only that he doesnt write at all for 3weeks. after the 3 weeks i write him and his excuse is that he has lot of stress with work.the last time i visited him he had recent naked photos of another girl which he claim his is ex.and after i got home he didnt write for three weeks.I wrote him that i expected to him to have contacted me earlier that he obviously dont like him and that i expected too much from him.i didnt actually end the relationship but just wrote him a plain letter telling him i expect him to treat me better.that apart i asked for a date for next month to discuss an issue with him.i intend to tell him that i am pregnant. I forgot to take the pills.Help i do i go about all this.i dont want a further relationship with him anyways.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 If you are pregnant, you do need to tell him, as he is responsible for the child as well as you. If you are not pregnant but want to scare him, please do not do this.
Have you seen a doctor and taken a pregnancy test to confirm that you are pregnant? If not, do so first. You also should be tested for sexually transmitted diseases to make sure you are not passing anything along to the child.
Then if you are, you do need to tell him. How do you tell him? Set up that appointment with him, and tell him what has happened and what you expect his responsibilities to be. You may have to see him without an appointment if he doesn't respond.
Get support from your friends and family; someone might be able to go with you when you tell him.
Good luck and take care. Remember that condoms save a lot of worry in the future.
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